First Official Date

Mr X asked to take me on a proper date, suggested  that our first meeting was not a date so one was due.
He was only in london or the weekend, i was still trying to not  play cheap and available so i said i could only see him on Sunday for a few hours.

He then said he wanted to get out of the city, i  said “well, we won’t have enough time to drive out of the city and back in time for me to pick up my son”.( notice, i liked the guy yes, but i wasn’t selling myself so cheap that whatever he said went, to some extent i think he respected me for that) He assured me that he’d get me home in time to pick up my son.

I had agreed to meet him earlier than agreed, which i did. he was already waiting for me outside the hotel with an executive town car by his side. He smiled as i approached, “late again” he said in turn i smiled and said “ i told you that was my only weakness”
“you must be perfect” he said as the driver got out of the car to open the door for me.

I asked where we were going to and he said Cornwall. i was like hell no!!! this like 5 hours away, i’ll be out all day and most part of the night too. that’s not what you promised me. “we won’t drive, i’l fly us there. only takes about an hour” i am stunned at this point, i don’t understand what he’s on about.
He didn’t even know my real name, i used an alias name on my dating profile, how did he get my last name to even book us tickets to Cornwall? i thought to myself…..

I then asked how he booked tickets without my last name..” oh no, i have an aircraft, no need for that” he says calmly . now i am even more confused…. WTF????

So i am quite for little while too confused to ask any more questions. then i say to him “ so how does that work? i don’t know anyone with an aircraft..”( my visa had run out 8 years prior and was in process with the home office, so i hadn’t travelled for that long)

Anyway, we got to Biggin Hill Airport, i am still stunned, i had no idea this place existed.  My door was opened as soon as we arrived, someone who looked like a flight attendant.
i was even more nervous now, feeling out of place and small but hey… my mother raised no fool, and i have seen the kardashian’s , sex and the city so i knew exactly how to carry myself.
i was there and was going to make the best of it!!!!

Mr X came, took my hand an led me into the entrance.  head up shoulders back, my red Topshop slingback clicking to the floor i walked in. now i am aware of people looking, is it our age difference? but i don’t care… they the help?

We stopped at a counter, he spoke to a guy there about filling a flight plan, refuelling and parking fee. A few minutes later he led me to an exit and all i could see is private jets! now i am excited. i think he noticed, he said “ don’t get too excited i flew in on the small one, i like it better than the 930” am thinking what ?

I didn’t say anything still quite, he led me to a small two seater aircraft. now i am even more confused,” who’s flying us? “me” he says .. ‘do you know how to?’ i asked , he laughed and says “i think so, i mean i flew myself here” ( he lives somewhere in Europe, not a uk resident)”

We took off, i was pinching myself the whole way to Newquay Airport where another car was waiting for us. we drove to some secluded beach near Branscombe that was a home to a restaurant that served the finest piece of steak i’d ever had.

Lunch was lovely, we talked mostly about me and little about himself. Now girls i have met men, worth what i would  assume to be minuet portion of his wealth and act a big jerk. Mr X was ever so humble, i still didn’t know what his deal was at this point, but i was sold. i liked hi, yes the flashy lifestyle i saw before me helped, but there was something about him, and i wanted to see where we’d go from here…

Flew back into London. upon arrival we had two cars waiting for us,  one to take me home, and the other him to the hotel. At this point he still didnt  try to kiss me or touch me inappropriately , kisses me on the cheek and asks me to ring him when i got home .

I didnt know what to think or say, but i knew what i wanted. i asked myself what i really wanted, and when i got that i was determined to get that and only that….

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  • Jennifer Villanueva
    Posted July 22, 2021 7:07 pm 0Likes

    Oh my! Such a wonderful story. I love how you describe each moment with him. He seem like a really gentleman, but yeah you are right in not giving in too easily with him, he will respect you more for that. Looking forward to the next chapter of this love story. Keep us posted.

    • sugarbabyadmin
      Posted July 23, 2021 9:03 am 0Likes

      Thank you so much, this was one of my first posts, the story continues, feel free to read the other posts as well. It has been over 5 beautiful years and he still treats me like a queen.

  • Viano
    Posted July 22, 2021 10:17 pm 0Likes

    Hmmm. Interesting read. However, flying such a distance with a stranger is so risky — anything can happen. Also, mean people don’t always show the sign on the first date— even for months— heck, some for years. Hope whoever the lady is doesn’t regret it.

    • sugarbabyadmin
      Posted July 23, 2021 9:01 am 0Likes

      Thanks for the care and concern, sometimes when it comes to love we take a leap of faith and hope for the best. This article is about our first date, we have been together for over 5 years now, and it has been very very good. I love him and so does he, it has been the best decision I have ever made in my life.

    Posted July 23, 2021 7:08 am 0Likes

    It sounds like you had an interesting encounter with Mr X. I hope that he continues to act respectfully and that this relationship works for you both.

    • sugarbabyadmin
      Posted July 23, 2021 8:54 am 0Likes

      Thank you Melanie, really appreciate that, he continues to treat me with love and respect.

  • Jenjen Balatico
    Posted July 23, 2021 8:58 am 0Likes

    I enjoyed reading you sharing your official date with Mr. X! Can’t wait to know the progress

  • Bethan Taylor-Swaine
    Posted July 23, 2021 11:08 am 0Likes

    I love reading about how people’s relationships started, especially when they involve a first date that is a bit uncommon!

    • sugarbabyadmin
      Posted July 23, 2021 11:40 am 0Likes

      Thank you, this was a very special date, I had not been on one like this one, Mr. X has continued to sweep me off my feet 🙂 🙂 🙂

      • sugarbabyadmin
        Posted July 23, 2021 11:41 am 0Likes

        Oh my, thank you. We have been together now for 5 years, this was one of my first posts, it has been an amazing and mostly breathtaking experience 🙂

  • Lyosha
    Posted July 23, 2021 5:57 pm 0Likes

    it looks absolutely amazing! Love it so much! I wish I could be there

    • sugarbabyadmin
      Posted July 24, 2021 1:23 pm 0Likes

      Thank you Lyosha 🙂

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